Ouch!

No one told me that turning 35 would give me such a headache.

UGH!!!

An Ah Ha!!

So there are a few times in life when you just have that spark and moment of clarity.
When all the sudden something just totally make sense. The Oprah proclaimed AH HA moment.

So while I was out with some friends the other night, I was introduced to a friend of a friend who in my opinion was tellable Gay.
But for the duration of conversation talked about girl friends and hot chicks etc.

I so totally never understood why some people choose to pretend to be straight. Well as the night went on and a few cocktails later, the conversation with me opened up and it was becoming more and more telling that yes he was into guys at least a little, but was not out with some of his guy friends.

As the conversations went on and on over the course of the night the things the "Boys" would say to each other were helping to bring the light bulb closer to hovering over my head.

It was if the light was turned on, or the door finally opened and it was there and then in that moment that I got it.
I understood the reason some guys "Act" STR8 with other guys.

It would be similar to the "Down Low". There is an added level of presumed innocents in play if lets say two "STR8" guys got drunk and then something happened. The excuse of " I've never done that before" or "this is the first time" some how to them means that they can't be gay, cause we all know your first time doesn't make you gay. Just curious. Ha!

So to those boys out there that I've always hated on for this Act. I dear now say to each of you.. Good show and good luck with that.

Its been awhile

Its been weeks since Ive posted.

I promise to commit to writing an update this week and posting it.

ciao